Well hey there,
My name is Roni. Thanks for stopping by!
No matter where you are on your healing journey right now, rest assured I’ve been there.
My whole life I went from one dysfunctional relationship to another, not even realising that being treated this way wasn’t ok.
For the most part of my 20s I stayed single and focused on my career.
I put all my energy into creating a life for myself that others could merely dream of, proving everyone (i.e. myself) that I didn’t need anyone (i.e. a man) for anything (i.e. to be happy). Successful career in the music industry, house in the Hollywood Hills, sunshine and palm trees. Living the dream. And for a while this indeed was the case. Until once again, I got involved with the wrong guy. And this time it would almost cost me my life.
I had no idea what had hit me or who this woman was that I had become. Within 45 days of meeting him, I went from being highly-functioning, strong, stable,successful and independent straight to A&E.
If you have a lot going for you, you also have a lot to take from you.
I learned that the hard way.
Needless to say, it didn’t stop there. Eventually I dropped everything I had built for myself in LA and with the last bit of energy I had left, I got on the plane back to my parents on the other side of the world. Truth is, I wouldn’t have survived another four weeks, so I ran for my life. Well… more crawled for my life really.
What followed was a roller-coaster of emotions and mental health challenges caused by post-traumatic stress. It for sure wasn’t pretty. I spent 2 years in hiding, piecing the puzzle together, discovering what had really happened, learning and obsessing about Narcissists, Sociopaths and Psychopaths, the denial, distracting myself with work so I wouldn't have to deal with my sh*t and then of course the relapse, getting involved with another narcissist in an attempt to prove myself wrong - but I wasn't. Fighting to stay alive day in, day out. Against all odds I did.
I was told that suffering from complex PTSD was a life-long condition and that I would have to take medication for the rest of my life to be able to be somewhat functioning.
I refused to accept that. And I'm glad I did...
I knew that something really bad had happened to me which caused all of this pretty much over night, there had to be something that could reverse the damage as effectively as it was caused. And my mission was to find that something.
Once I did, it only took me 5 months from not even being able to leave the house to go grocery shopping to being healthy and trigger & symptom free.
I know how it feels to be caught up in the soul-destroying web of the narcissist.
I know how scary it is to walk away and how devastating it is to deal with the aftermath.
I also know how it feels when no-one understands and you’re going through the darkest time of your life seemingly all on your own.
And that’s why I developed a tailored approach specifically designed for an effective and lasting recovery from Narcissistic Abuse. Based on my own healing experience and refined throughout my work with my one-on-one clients in my private practice.
I believe that you’ve come here for a reason.
I believe that being a survivor of Narcissistic Abuse truly is a blessing in disguise.
I believe that with the right tools and support everyone can fully heal from Narcissistic Abuse.
I believe that this is the start of the most profound and liberating journey of your life.
I believe that this is your opportunity to Recover The True You.
And I believe that you have come here for a reason.
Please do get in touch. I'd love to hear from you!